on my new (2 months) XR I have automatic updates turned off. But I don't get the little red circle with a 1 inside over the settings icon when an update is available so I don't know to check. But even more frustrating is that at some point predetermined by Apple, my phone quits working correctly - specifically, I can make or receive a call but it "self terminates" after less than 5 seconds. (I can still txt tho) I guess this is some sort of BS prompt to check the settings. Is there any way around this? It seems stupid and insane. What if I'm in a dangerous or emergency situation and must make a call to avoid a disaster? I don't think the Tsumani will pause while I download and install an update. Or call an ambulance for a traffic wreck. Anyway...... Thoughts? Fixes?