After force quitting, I restarted and it eventually finished installing. I then went to About this Mac and it STILL says 10.11 (15A284).
If I wipe out my whole iMac HD and do a clean install, is this 6GB file the one I should use to start from scratch? And, at this point, are there any other options left?
Yes, and first, it would be the full 6 GB Installer file you have.
I'm assuming that this latest attempt by you was to
update from OS 10.11 to something "higher". But, the size of 6GB for the installer sounds like you were updating to either 10.11.1, 10.11.2, or 10.11.3 with a
full OS installer. The size of the Combo Updater for OS 10.11.3, on the other hand, is 1.47 GB. So, please describe
exactly where you were upgrading from, what you were upgrading to, and which updater file you tried to use.
Also, regarding your most recent attempt, when you say "Most recently I redownloaded the full 6GB installer, backed up all my stuff, placed the installer on my external HD and ran it, installing the OS on my iMac HD", how exactly did you start up that installer file on your external hard drive?
When I upgraded from Yosemite (OS 10.10.5), I actually started with the full OS 10.11.1 full installer. The reason why I waited for OS 10.11.1 is that the first beta of OS 10.11.1 appeared near the beginning of August, almost 8 weeks before OS 10.11 was released (at the end of September). OS 10.11.1 came out 4 weeks later, at the end of October. (The other factor was that the update for TechTool Pro (one of my 5 products that I require to be compatible) was not released until the end of the first week of October).
Also, when I upgraded, I already had a bootable backup (via SuperDuper!) on two external devices. So, I booted from that backup, used Disk Utility there (the Yosemite version) to erase and format the internal SSD, and then did a fresh, clean installation of OS 10.11.1 from the file on the backup to my internal SSD (I actually did this for both of my Macs). Later on, when OS 10.11.2 and OS 10.11.3 were released, I used the Combo Updater for each of those both times (and again on both of my Macs). All of that went smoothly.
Assuming that you have a bootable backup on an external device, yes, you can first boot to that backup, then proceed to 1) Erase, Format, and if necessary Partition your internal drive on the iMac, 2) do a fresh, clean installation with the latest
full El Capitan Installer file on the external hard drive, and 3) re-boot the iMac.
Next, use Migration Assistant to "migrate"/copy all the applicable stuff from the backup on the external drive. Finally, if that full installer file you used results in either OS 10.11, OS 10.11.1, or OS 10.11.2, you can then download the Combo Updater for 10.11.3, and apply it.
By the way, so far (and knock on wood) all of my software that was initially compatible with OS 10.11 (or OS 10.11.1, in my case) has remained compatible with OS 10.11.2 and OS 10.11.3. A couple of threads on this site revealed that some "off the wall" software needed an upgrade to the latest version of El Capitan, from the "base" OS 10.11. Hopefully, that will be your case. But, to be sure, you should confirm that you have any necessary updaters for third party applications that you have. Myself, initially OS 10.11 compatible versions of 1Password, Onyx, Office 2011, SuperDuper!, and TechTool Pro (those are the 5 products I referred to above) were released, but since that time, newer versions of 1Password, Onyx, and Office 2011 have been released, but
not for "later" OS compatibility.
If the external backup is not a "bootable" one (ie, you used Time Machine for your backups), there is another way you could do this, although it will not initially be done "externally". But, let us know if you have a bootable backup on the external drive.