Hi there,
this "board" is a vBulletin one...
Without getting to techy, (unless you want me to), yes it is possible for the SuperAdmin and whomever they wish to read PM's.
The only person here that would be able to read PM's is me, no one else.
I however have never had the need to read any PM's.
There are a lot of moral etc implications.
I know of other 'webmasters' that have to have the ability to read Pm's because of the age of their 'customers', the PM's are automatically checked in case of inappropriate behaviour.
This however is not a feature built into vBulletin the owner of the site needs to download a 'plugin' to do this.
I would not believe what you are being told on the other website !
If they want to read the PM's then they can. At least the main Admin would be able to.
This is a
link to the patch, and quite an active discussion on the subject !
regards
Ric